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writes:hi,me and my girlfriend split up the start of febuary,she wanted a break as she was depressed and want to sort her issues out,we have stayed in touch mainly through txt,i saw her in april but it was to hard for me just going out as friends so i spoke to her and she said that when she is ready she will get in touch with to give it another go,anyway,i foned her a copuple of weeks ago as she started a new job,she said this is what she needed to sort her head out,she said after a good talk that she would agree to go back out on a date with me but she is just worried that i am goin to ask her questions about us,we are supposed to goin out on saturday,she knows its to try anf start a fresh,she said she doent know how she feels about me as she hasnt seen me,my question is,how should i be with her,i really dont want to blow our chances of getting back together,please help me lol,many thanx
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 well she wont be looking for it to be as it was wen you finished, so take things slower this time. start by seeing eacthother casually and let it grow into a relationship again. you say your trying to start afresh so act as you would on any other first date. ask all about her. dont bring up the past because you dont need to. focus on the present and the new chance at a future with her. im sure that over time, things wil get back to the way they should be, but for now, give her the space she needs and try not to come on too strong.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (9 July 2008):
 I would play it slightly aloof, she obviously is confused about how she is feeling, which isn't GREAT when you're trying to get back with someone...Don't be all in her face, lioke she said, son't ask her questions about you as a couple, just see how things go, have a good time as friends, see if the spark is there still, and DON'T drink, because you'll end up emotional and scaring her off!
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