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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid,After a little of time I'm back with a little headache. Last time I have been here, some people told me to stop my obsession with a historical character, and I swear, I tried. I started to choose some guys very different from my historical crush, and I found two people that already attracted me and who could make me let him go. A guy called Sam (fantasy name to make the story easy to read) and a girl called Missy. I ever knew that I don't like girls, just feel attracted for Missy many years ago, but how she was easy to stay with me, I let her to my second option, but open option.I'm very near to Sam and his friends, we're always togheter and, when one of my friends told him I became very exciting, cause I already known that he couldn't have something with me. But you know how it is, isn't it? The hope is the last that dies!So I started to hang out with Sam, and we started to really have fun like we never had before. But in the times we hang out we never had time to stay togheter without someone bothering us.With the time, a started to like a little (just a little) Sam, and I'm sure that he liked me a little in that times. But yesterday, a friend of mine came to say something like it: " I guess he doesn't want to hang with you this saturday. I don't know if I would talk it for you, but I really think that you must talk about it. He's very strange. At the Sunday he were in love with you.".In the saturday we combined to be alone. Without no one to bother us. Should I act like I didn't know it and insist him to hang out with me, or just let it go? What should I do?(Just to reforce: in the same day, Missy, who was really on mine, gave me an out. What's wrong with me? Should ugly girls stay dreaming with the love of their lifes forever?)
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reader, Denizen +, writes (7 November 2015):
I'm sorry. Could you simplify your question for me? I understand that English may not be your first language. If you could put your problem to us another way perhaps we can offer some suggestions.
Thank you.
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