A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I never seen to climax when my boyfriend is on top, and feel like i can't tell him about the problem. I've never came from the g-spot, and when i do come during sex its only because of the friction caused to my clit.I dont know if there is something wrong with me as i can't say its my boyfriend cause ive had the same problems with ex's. Please can someone give me some advice?
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reader, chigirl +, writes (5 August 2010):
Hello. This isn't a problem, so please stop referring to it as a problem. This is how women work. This is normal. Consider yourself lucky if you are able to come with your boyfriend alone and not have to use toys at the same time. It is extremely difficult for most women to come from penetration alone. And is is difficult for many women to come from clitoral stimulation even!
If you have been able to come from g-spot stimulation before, then you know you are able to (not all women are!!) and the practice practice practice. And yes, you do need to tell your boyfriend how to work it so that you can come as well. I am sure he will only be happy to help.
PS. never fake it!
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