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writes: hi,I am really confused as I am completely in love with my husband and children, yet I can't stop thinking about women! I see this as betraying and hurts me, but I feel jealous of my husband as he has a real woman and I don't. Sex between us is usually fab! And he is soooooo giving but I hate this lil fantasy I have. I wonder if I'm in the wrong relationship.Is this just a fantasy or am I gay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2006): God im so glad i found this article, my head is in a spin. im in love with my man and want to spend rest of life with him. but i fancy a gay friend of mine. i thought it was wrong as ive never felt like this about a woman before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2006): No. You're not gay. Fantasies of being with a woman is the top sexual fantasy for all women. We ALL think about being with a woman. We all just don't act on it. It's just a fantasy and should be left as one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2006): dont worry about it,i'm a women and i have these fantasies as well and i'm not gay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2006): Nope...just an honest human.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2006): Interestingly enough, despite men being more gung-ho when it comes to actually going in for sex, their fantasy lives tend to pale by comparison to womens'. Maybe the average guy can get off on the same trite old mental footage he's been using since high-school, but women overall tend to have much wilder fantasies even if they don't always enact them. What to do about these fantasies? Enjoy them. If sex with your husband is still satisfying augemented by a little homoerotic fantasy, don't fret about it. No one in this world is 100% straight, nor 100% gay.
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