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writes:I like two guys.One was my best friend i was in love with him he didnt like me we hung out alot and i thought he liked mebut i saw him kissing another girlthe other is another friendhe is like perfect. i just transfered out of schoolwith them and the guy who is perfect and i talk every daywe started going out and i said some mean things to the other guyi miss his friendship and cant stop thinking about him.i love the old guy, but im not sure how i feel about the other one who im datingi dont want to hurt the new one, and i have not talked to the other one since i lefti love him dearly tho!plz help.here are the actual questions-who should i choose?-if the new guy is the one to choose how do i get over the old one?-if the old one, how do i not hurt the new one?
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reader, MissDesire +, writes (22 January 2009):
 Hello dear,Well let's start out by saying, I've been here before... you honestly have to think deep down inside "what do I want?" All you can truly do in your life is make yourself happy, you can't go through life stressed about who is unhappy at that point in time. So it sounds like you're with Mr. Perfect? And you said that the other guy was your best friend? Well then keep him as your best friend. It's not uncommon to be attracted to a guy friend, but ask yourself honestly whom you want to be with. Make yourself happy and the rest will fall into place.As far as getting over one guy or the other, if that is truly the case, and you feel that that is what you need to do to be with one or the other, it takes time. I won't say it will be easy, if you really want to get over the guy, don't contact him, don't see him, 'cause every time you see him all those emotions will come flooding back. Have you discussed your feelings with him? Love is never easy and sometimes it's not even rational, but do what will make YOU happy, dear.Feel free to message me if you need to talk of this further.~Des
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