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Took DearCupid's advice and now I don't know what to do

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Question - (10 December 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2012)
A age 30-35, * writes:

I posted a question on this site a few weeks ago, and I took the advice of the helpful aunts and wanted some help out of a situation I've caused for myself.

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/all-the-girls-go-for-my-good-looking35.html

I took the advice of the aunts and started lightly flirting with other girls, without my cousin being around. I had many failures but I had a couple successes where I could tell the girl was interested. The problem was, I did this just to practice flirting not to get into anything serious. This one girl now keeps flirting with me, touching my thigh and talking dirty to me. Her friend told I should take her out somewhere.

This is going too quickly for me because I just desperately needed to learn how to flirt. I have ex issues to work out, along with confidence issues and don't want to bring a girl into this mess. What do I do to avoid this from escalating? I don't want to hurt the feelings of the girl as she is a very nice girl.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (11 December 2012):

Honeypie agony auntIt's OK to flirt and not take it further. And really, there is only one way to get good at stuff - practice!

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (11 December 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntTo the friend who says that you should take her out somewhere: "She's seems like a nice girl. I'm not looking for a dating situation. I'm just flirting."

So now you know that you can attract a girl, your flirting skills are not in doubt.

"I'm still on the rebound and I'm not looking for a girlfriend or a date."

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (11 December 2012):

janniepeg agony auntYou don't have to do anything. The girl will grow up and realize that not all flirting leads to something serious. If she keeps contacting you, just tell her you are not looking for a relationship right now.

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