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Too shy? Or just not into me?

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Question - (27 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok so I really like this guy and I see him everyday in the cafeteria, he always sits with a group of friends and i'm usually sitting alone, just so that I'm available if he comes and talks to me..

So today we both just exchanged stares all day, and I was giving him lots of smiles so he won't be intimidated by me, and he was smiling a lot too..but why doesn't he come over to talk to me? Its getting so frustrating because I sit there waiting for him all the time, I don't know if he is just too shy or is he not interested? My feeling is that he is interested but doesn't know how to come over to talk to me, but I'm just not sure sometimes..could he just be waiting for me to approach him?

So do you understand what might be going on with him? I want to try to bump into him and say hi, but every time I see him he is already sitting in the cafeteria with friends..

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (28 April 2009):

Danielepew agony auntJrcook is right.

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A female reader, Jrcook United States +, writes (28 April 2009):

Jrcook agony auntHe sounds shy? : Try to figure out where yall could bump into each other without so many people around. keep up the flirting. Flirting is always good :)

-Maybe you could maybe do the come here motion, with your finger. The worst thing that could happen is he says no. Sometimes guys dont know for sure if you like them so they wait to see if you will do something. Stupid thing is that we are usually waiting on them to do something :)

--Good luck

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