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Too shy -- how to make his fantasies come true?

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Question - (19 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2009)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey,

well, typical scenerio of the girl wanting to be the perfect gf, i want to fullfill my bf's sexual fantasies and make his mind explode.

so one of his is a striptease, of all them its the one I'm am LEAST comfortabel with. like, im ok with roleplays and stuff like that, but striptease just makes me so uncomfortable cause i have a very low self esteem, and basically hate my body, and im afraid ill make a fool out of myslef. i don't find myself desireable. and everytime i ask him, he just tells me that one. he is shy too, so he dnt tell me sexy things, even if i plead.

so how can I overcome my shyness? i want to make him the hapiest man on earth, and make me unforgetable.

any ideas?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009):

One of my ex boyfriends fantasy was a leather catsuit which was great because it covers up your body then you can tie him to the bed and massage him which actually makes you even more comfortable about yourself. Then i actually took off my clothes partly because i could not move in that outfit!

start to wear something sexy then watch how his eyes watch your every move even then as you take off your top cover your breasts with your hands and turn your back on him or let him see a side view then just jump him after all your clothes off or if you feel self conscious. im sure he wont say no!

good luck

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A female reader, tea.petal United States +, writes (19 April 2009):

tea.petal agony auntI think you should be honest with him. Tell him you are not comfortable doing a striptease for him. If he truly loves you he will understand and choose another fantasy that you are more comfortable with.

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