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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (4 July 2014):
 Humm I wonder if they've kissed yet...check out the date
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reader, leeleelove123  +, writes (4 July 2014):
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for atleast 8 months we have kissed many times and it is easy just lean in think happy thoughts keep your eyes closed . REMMEMBER DONT THINK JUST DO IT! ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2013): If you have been with your boyfriend for 3 days and you want to kiss that is stupid because I am 14 now and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months and we are going to have our first kiss tomorrow. Its sweet that you are in love but don't rush into things because it will go wrong I have been there and done that and I don't want you to not kiss him but that's my advise xx
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reader, One-on-oneGirl +, writes (10 June 2011):
I have been in your spot. Just take about 5 breaths and relax. Most importantly just close your eyes. Remember it isn't suppose to be scary its suppose to be FUN!!(: and don't be nervous!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010): well its the same as me i kissed a guy but no a special first of all ask your freinds if they ever went out with him cause i kissed a guy and he slobberd all over my face and i dont want that to happen to u :D u need to make sure ur special in your eyes and his eyes if u no he really loves u go for it dont be ruff thought lean close. close your eyes and count to 3 easy as that then it will be all over and then when u guys wanna go to a nother level do the same its really easy and its a perfect thing :D write me back about how u did and tell me if it was perfect or NOT! but im sure it will be the best thing that ever happend
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): well let him lead, if he doesnt after a week or so talk to him, it might just be that your to early in the relationship, just let him know how you feel,
hope i helped :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): I have the same problem I love my boyfriend so much but he had adhd
And when we was on the grass and his sister was trying to get us to kiss
It waas like I had to make all the moves so I jus sat there...
What I'm sayin is try and talk to him and ask him if he wants to kiss
If he does but admits his scareed you will have to admit to
Then ask him if just you and him wanna meet up
Then cuddle him then holdhands then go sit dowm somewhere
Like grass just u and him, then say ur cold and ask for a cuddle
Then after the cuddle look at the time and say you have to go home and get
Something like money before ur mum goes out,
And then go bk to him or if he waits outside
Just take a deep breath look deeply into his eyes and say Ilove you
And look at his lips then eyes then lips then eyes. And lean
If he hesitates say Please?? And then he will lean and then your lips will
Touch!! After ur kiss smile and hug him :)
Hope I helped x
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reader, JJTheAngel2 +, writes (23 April 2010):
Well , Put it this way.. If you love him you'll forget about been scared of kissing him. You shouldnt be scared. Just relax, Take a deep breath .. and go for it! It can a pop kiss. For your first kiss, you dont have to makeout or anything like that! Just give him a pop kiss. Simple as that.. Relax, And lean in to kiss him.. and then back away slowly.. and give him a big smile .. Or bite your lip. ;)
Dont worry, I've been there. I was scared the first time i was gonna get my first kiss.. And after i look back. I laaugh at ohw stupid to think i was scared. Its the easiest thing to do in the world.. Even a 5 year old's kiss! So if you think your ready. Then go for it! And Also, Find a place where you feel comfortable with and your alone.. And kiss him. 33 Goodluck to everyone! : ) You'll be fine i can assure you that!!
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reader, Ashten.W +, writes (11 February 2010):
Im here too but i am in Middle school and i have been dating this guy for a while and he has told me too that he wants to kiss me and idk what to say because i have never kissed anyone and i really like this guy
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reader, aalleexxiiss +, writes (2 January 2010):
Im in the same position! my boyfriend wants to kiss me and i wanna kiss him but hes done it before and i havent and like idk how to kiss or what to do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): i am scared but i kissed my boyfriend and it amasing it is like u r fling so go kiss him now
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): i am in the same position, i am going a party next week and have been told a lad will make a move on me i want to kiss him back but i just dont no what to do and am scared i will mess it up
please help mee!!!
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reader, LoveHelp23 +, writes (1 December 2009):
ok, so all u hav to do is ask him if he wants to acually kiss at all, and if yes... go for it girl!! But if no... just wait, ur time will come!! Since ur scared all u hav to do is close ur eyes, puker ur lips like ur drinking a soda out of a can, and it will be over b4 u no it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): I'm so scared about kissing a guy were I live if u dnt kiss a guy ur a chicken and they dnt understand u can't talk 2 them about it i think u do it when ur up 2 it dnt be pushed into it evan if ur friends say u should do it when u want 2
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): Me and my boyfriend have been going out about a week, and he wants us to kiss, the problem is he's already done it before, and this will be my first time! Im kinda scared but yet i feel ready to kiss him, I dont know what to do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): heytoday i just kissed my boyfriend but the kiss did not mean much becuase i was soooooooo scared. So tomorrow i'm going to kiss him again. All you have to do is is think of all happy thoughts and just kiss him, it's easy if you really do like him. OR EXPLAIN TO HIM HOW YOU FEEL
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): I agree with everyone else, if you're not ready, don't go for it,also best thing is to make sure he doesn't have some kind of flu, i made that mistake once, and i was sick for 3 weeks O.Ooh yeah, i'm sort of in the same situation you are, i just started dating this guy, he's really sweet and all and one night he walked me up to my door after our date... i wanted to kiss him right then But i was really shy, and well of course His mom was watching so that didn't really help either, But anyways Good luck to you and your man :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): just do it because you both want to..it is not like he won't because like you said.you both want to right?i just got my first kiss today and it wasn't that bad.it kinda felt good.lol
but all you need to do is lean in and let it flow.it comes naturually.really,
everything will be fine.there is nothing to be scared of.go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): u should wait until the perfect moment, wait when ur both alone look into each others eyes and if neither of you hasnt made a move then one of u should make a slight movement towards ur partner this slight movement will make your partner realize that u want to be kissed and it will them more confidenceps. males it will be alot better if you do and females are expecting you 2 make the first move
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): I've had the same problem... and i still do kinda.. we kissed at the movies, but he went a little too fast with an open mouth kiss witch was a little awkward for me. i guess if you're not ready you should tell him that.. belive me, i told him to slow down, and he totaly understood.. (i still can't belive he didn't think i'm some total freak ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007): instead of waiting to kiss go up to him and kiss him then next time you wont be scared just go up to him kiss him that is mt advise
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2007): Well i think that you should not be pressured in to doing something that u dont feel like doin, but see im 14 years old fixing to go to high skool, and still have not kissed a boy yet. Yea but i think that u should kiss when yall both are comfortable and ready.. love confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): i am too scared but i really want to suck kiss but am too scared wot should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2006): u should talk about it with each other
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2006): i used to have the same problem but you jus gotta relax about it and you be in control!! so dont be scared adn jus kiss him!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2006): if you both want to just try it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2005): hey don't be scared :) when u go on ur next date like the movies or sumting or watching movies at each others house just cuddle up and just keep starring at him and when he looks at you move ur head up and land a soft gentle kisson him :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2005): I know you are both scared, but if your not ready, your not ready. Don't rush it. The right time will happen when you will both just lean in w/ your eyes closed and kiss. If you really want to, just do it and get it over with. You will both feel much better.
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reader, Cutie_pie1990 +, writes (18 June 2005):
heya, I used to be in the same position as you. I felt really scared about even asking a guy out, let alone going out with him because i was so scared about kissing him. Then i managed to pluck up the courage and ask out this guy i'd liked for about 3 months ( well actually my freind did it for me) after about a week i realised that at some point i would have to kiss him, so i just kept my cool and in the end it just comes naturally to you and things run smoothly. trust me you'll be fine.good luck and best wishesrobynXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2005): we have all been there at some point in our lives.if your both scared then you must have talked about it which is a good thing! as its both your first kiss then it should be a bit easyer than kissin someone who has done it before. i would say take you time you dont need to rush into it make sure your both ready. there isnt realy any tips as such im sure when you start kissing that you will find you own rythem and dont let your friends push you into it. you must be ready and belive me you will know when that is
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