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writes:i have a problem k well my girlfreind broke up with me beacuse i have gotten in too many fights but i get in these fights to defend her please help fast thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): We need more information honey, but most girls (especially your age) don't like fighting, then want a nice, gentle guy! Maybe go and apologize to her, buy her something you know she'll like. But remember, you're still young, you have your whole life ahead of you and many more girls are coming your way.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (16 June 2008):
 Hey there! I think I need alittle more info. Were you in fights with peers, as in fist fights? Because you were defending her against their bullying? If thats the case, your issue is easily solved. Stop fighting. It has never solved anything, never will. It will always make your problems worse, and it has. Does she know you are defending her? Has she told you not to fight, or she will break up with you? Believe me, there are far better ways of defending perople than fighting (physically). With a little creativity, you can really get to the core of a person, and make it so they never bother you, your gf, family members, ect. But fighting, never works. More info will better help us help you hon.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 How exactly are you 'defending' your girlfriend by getting into fights? Are these people actually, physically threatening her, or is it name calling, or the like? What I'm getting at here is, does she really NEED defending?
Don't go assuming your girl can't stand up for herself, and don't go thinking every little slight is worth hitting someone for.
No girl wants to date a thug. Fighting is no way to impress a lass, it just makes you look like a knob who thinks with his fists rather than his head.
Good luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): Lsiten, I am NOT sure how old you are but FIGHTING should be left to middle school and high school kids, BUT NOT OVER WOMEN! I am sure your girlfriend is a big girl (i mean adult enough) to handle her own battles! So stand by and let her do that! If she needs your help, she will ask for it. Then you can be her knight and shining armor. If she doesn't and you step in, you look like an A$$! Let her make YOU feel good by fighting and standing up for herself and to say she is with you then she will be proud. But there is NO NEED FOR VIOLENCE!
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reader, countrygirlWV +, writes (16 June 2008):
 Well if ur fighten cause some guy is all over ur gall and she aint doing nothing about it her self maybe its best but if u get in fights cause u just don't like the way they looked at her then have u ever thought"Damn I'm lucky to have a girl this hot." I mean it depends on the whole problem. But maybe u should just let things go and just worry about how she fills and try to make it up to her to get her back
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