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*remlin
writes:My girlfriend cheated on me 6 months ago when I went on holiday. I told her I forgave her but the I haven't really felt the same since. She made msn her everynight and told me how much she hated me, and made my whole 2 months miserable.I have resented her since. I love her very much, but, is it too late to end the relationship over that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): Of course something and someone else will come along! You don't need to be with this girl if she makes you unhappy. I stayed with someone I loved for nearly 8 years before it ended. Looking back, I was unhappy for much of that time, but just got used to it, and thought that because I loved him, it was enough. After we split, and I thought it was the end of the world of course, I met an amazing guy and really started enjoying life. Now I realise what I was missing out on for all that time. Ok, I know it sounds cheesy BUT what I am trying to say is that love isn't always enough. Someone should also make you feel good and happy. And they shouldn't cheat on you either. Move on from this girl and find some who deserves you. They'll come along, just wait and see xxx
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Yes Yes Yes you will find someone else and that person will make you realise what you have been missing. Get rid of this baggage and move on. Be happy life's short!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): Hi, I just had to respond to this... I'm an attractive 54 year old woman. The cougar type,lol. I was involved in a almost 4 year relationship with a 42 year old who acted like he was in his 20,'s. I gave up, and I really loved this person, just move on, I told my ex-boyfriend that I was going back to an old boyfriend and getting married! So, he does resent me, and now I can see the whole picture, he was wrong for me even though I did love him, and I'm wrong for him as well, make yourself happy.
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reader, gremlin +, writes (24 May 2010):
gremlin is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone, you are really helping. Im only 20 after all, im sure even if this is a huge mistake, something else great will come along one day right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): Its not too late at all. If you still resent her and cant trust her now, you may never again. She hurt you and that pain may go away, but you still can never forget it. She did something horrible to you and made you miserable. If she doesnt care about you, then she will just do it again. You can find someone better and more loyal who will always make you happy and wont treat you like garbage. You will always have this hanging over your head and you shouldnt have to go on with it.
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (24 May 2010):
God she sounds like a total bitch. Why is she making you msn her and then telling you she hates you?? Mate you deserve better than this!!! Leave her asap and find someone who will treat you like a prince. She's not worthy of your love.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Either end the relationship or live with the pain and the resentment towards her and you'll hurt yourself. It's normal to have this delayed reaction. At the time you obviously intended to forgive and forget but it hurt you so much that you just can't let it go.........I totally understand how you feel.
End it and when you do tell her that you just can't deal with it and you need to go in your separate ways.
All the best to you!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): Do what you feel. If its something that you cant handle being with her for then do what you need to-do. She cheated on you. You can talk to her about it and tell her that you r still troubled by it but its your choice.. GL
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): Do what you feel. If its something that you cant handle being with her for then do what you need to-do. She cheated on you. You can talk to her about it and tell her that you r still troubled by it but its your choice.. GL
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 You can end it anytime you want. If you are not happy and don't find the peace of mind, why stay on?
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