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*urt234
writes:So recently I started going out with this amazing girl. The only problem is that ugly away she went on vacation and I missed her for that two weeks, but we could talk so it was cool. But right when she got back her parents suddenly surprised her with another two week vacation. The only problem is that this time the place has no wifi and her phone was taken away. She said right before she left shed find a way to talk to me she promised. It's been 3 days and I miss talking to her alot! I have no idea when she will get it back do I'm constantly checking my phone for a text from her, my worries are that this time apart might ruin this fresh relationship! Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2012): Can't help smiling. You are so young and your parents are deliberately keeping you away from this young lady for 1 month. They know a lot can happen for both parties in 1 month at your age. Just smile sweetly at your parents as if you don't have a care in the world. you won't be able to get the girl out of your mind for 1 minute (nor she you) but 1 month will pass quicker than you imagine. 1-0 to you both!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 August 2012):
 relax... this short time apart is not going to ruin the relationship.
Person12345 is right... it will be so nice when she gets home...
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reader, person12345 +, writes (7 August 2012):
 It won't ruin it if you don't let yourself go nuts about it! It's just one month. A few weeks into my current relationship my boyfriend went on a college trip to a remote place for 2 weeks and we couldn't talk at all and it felt awful. When we finally got to see each other again, it was the most amazing feeling. I thought maybe I had been "pining" more than him, but it turns out we both felt the same. You will feel the same thing if you just hold out and stop obsessing.
It's not a year, it's just one month. It will feel great when you get to see each other again, just keep yourself busy.
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