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writes:I have been dating this man for about 9 months now. We work together which I do not feel totally uncomfortable or comfortable with. I am somewhat indifferent I suppose. I have never dated anyone which I work with. We go to lunch frequently, although around September-December it was less frequent. He has picked up the pace quite a bit and now I am totally confused. I have never met his family, and I have wanted to break it off although I really do care for him, there are just alot of 'fishy' things that make me 'wonder'. I feel in a sense that he may want to break it off with me but it's like he is doing things , rather being hot and cold, and it's like he is wanting me to end it in a way. But here's the clencher..... he is always always completely nice about everything and even goes out of his way to see me sometimes at work.....he drives 20 miles every other day to come see me. And we go out to nice restaurants quite a bit. I am sooo confused. Advice?
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reader, joanna_690  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 i'd just confront him about these 'fishy' things
it might be totally harmless but its best to be sure
if he totally over reacts about you confronting him then he's definately got something to hide and you should call it off
9 months is a long time so he shouldn't be defensive or secrative
just talk to him and depending on his actions make your decision
good luck =)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Do you enjoy when you are with him? If you know the answer then it is not difficult to decide to stay or leave.If you don't know the answer, just let time decide.
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