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writes: I met this guy 5 years ago whilst I was travelling, we got on really well and were pretty much inseperable. When we got back to the UK due to distance and other factors it didn't continue.However we kept in touch by text and e-mail and always promised to visit each other. A couple of weeks ago I finally took the plunge and went to stay with him for a bit. Let's just say things moved to the next stage. We still got on really well and it was as if there hadn't been 5 years in between.Since I got home (we live about 600 miles apart) we have text a couple of times, and exchanged a couple of photos (use your imagination) but I am not sure what he wants. I am terrified to ask him in case I ruin our friendship but I am also terrified that if I don't say anything he will think I am not interested!!Please help. I'm driving myself mad thinking about it!!Betty
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2005): Bettyas the previous reader says, you have got to ask him honestly whats happening or what does he want to happen friendship or relationship? If you dont Betty, you may end up doing what i did - suffering for a long time whilst i saw a lovely girl who i loved dearly , form a relationship with a man in front of my nose...simply because i failed to ask her for "more than mates" before she met him...do it please Betty...John.
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reader, benjiluver +, writes (8 April 2005):
 Just take a plunge again. Text him and be really soft with him. Say something like "umm are we going to take this into a relationship or do you want to just stay friends, coz we don't have to if you don't want to". Just something simple like that. and I'm sorry no one's answered your question yet. I would be furious, but anyway, I hope I've helped.
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