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30-35,
*rincess_sweety
writes:How many times do you need to have sex before you have an orgasm? I've had sex over 10 times and have come close but never been fully satisfied.I like knowing that I satisfied my partner but I'm tired of the guy being the only one who gets the happy ending.
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reader, princess_sweety +, writes (19 April 2009):
princess_sweety is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know i need to communicate more. and i guesse try a couple of new things. I just need to figure out how to tell him with out him feeling bosses around, or like he's not getting the job done.
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (19 April 2009):
 Wow, wish I could say I don't know what you are talking about, but I do. When I was with my last partner it took him awhile to "figure out" what I liked. I actually had to open up and tell him what and how. Even though he was experienced, he didn't have the ME experience. Once you explain what and how to him, everything should be smooth sailing from there.
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reader, kissxmexagainx +, writes (19 April 2009):
 you need to talk to him about what you like. show him how to please you. make sure you're relaxed. If you're not satisfied it's most likely because he's doing something wrong. talk to him about it, but don't make him feel bad about it. have you had an orgasm before? and does he know yuo haven't during sex?
just don't fake it, ok?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): OK, 10 times, so it's a fairly new sexual relationship. Have you told him what you like? Everyone is different, and even if he's had experience with other people, he'll need help to know what works best for *you*. Unless he's an indifferent cad, he wants it to work for you too. So communicate! I guarantee he's not a mind-reader.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): As far as i know, the girl is not supposed to recieve complete satisfaction during sex. Your clitoris needs to be stimulated in order for this to happen so find a position where he can play with you while you're having sex. Or if he's nice, he shouldn't have a problem helping you out before or after the entercourse.
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