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anonymous
writes:Hi,my problem is I'm heartbroken,and I want to get on with my life.I'm 15,female and I have feelings for my best friend who is also female.She is bi-sexual and only recently got a girl friend, they've broken up now because the girl was cheating.I told my best friend that I felt like I wanted to be with her properly. Weve always been a bit more then friends ,when sleeping at each others houses we fall asleep in each others arms,she's always saying how much she loves me.She cried and cried when I told her and said that she felt the same way accept that it was a bad idea, if we broke up it might ruin our friendship.I agreed but was deeply hurt.I'm beginning to come to terms with her and i just being friends.The problem is although she won't admit it I think she'd taking it hard,when were together she looks like she desperately wants to tell me something and she looks soo sad when we leave each other.Were to afraid to even touch each other now because whenever we do I want to cry,I didnt think she felt that way until I looked up and saw her expression,she always looks crushed.But even though she's still acting like she want's to be with me she keeps pushing me away.Always saying things like 'best-friends forever' !I'm trying to get over the whole thing but she's making it really hard.And I know i'm not just imagining her looking at me the way she does because our friends are all beginning to suspect that there is something going on between us.Does anyone have any advice as to how I can finally move on,I'm sick of being sad.
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reader, angel91  +, writes (1 May 2009):
thats really tough. I suppose you could see where she's coming from when she said it may ruin your friendship if you got together. But, isn't it better to be with her as a friend, than not be with her at all?I think you should have a chat about how you both feel right now. Maybe she's scared of having feelings for you.But everything happens for a reason, and no matter what happens, you're still young and have a whole load of experiences ahead of you.Sorry for the lame advice :S
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