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writes:i was in a 3 some the other day with 2 women, they are good friends, things went well during the activities we all had fun during, but afterwords the 3rd person seemed to go quiet and not speak to either of us other 2, this was her first experience with these kind of activities and i feel as tho she regrets it, as it was unexpected...one minute we are laying there chilling the next....ya im sure you get the point... it there a way to find out her feelings on the matter without being blunt and making it seem like its a big deal? personally i do not regret what happened, but i do feel as tho i did something horrid and wrong and against the friendship we have, this was also the first time me and the one woman did anything..we have been friends over 2 years tho.. and i also do not want to risk ruining the friendship with either woman, is there any advice you can give on how to approach the situation without either woman feeling like i am trying to make it a big deal? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks for the replies. i managed to talk with both women about it non-nonchalantly and everything is fine now, i really appreciated your feedback. thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): I have actually had a threesome before, you need to be very careful that people's feelings don't get to involved. I would just talk to her and ask her how she is doing. Start a casual conversation and slowly work it into the conversation. Be kind and considerate for her feelings and if she shys away from the conversation just back off and leave it at that. She may be feeling guilt because of how she was raised or she may have feelings toward you or the other girl that she didn't expect. Many things could be running through her mind. I hope everything works out. Maybe you could also talk to the one that wasn't quiet and see if she can find out what is wrong with the other girl. Then again she may have just been tired. The only way to find out is to ask.
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