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my boy friend has had this fantacy of seeing me(us)
have a three some with a nother girl. The first time
he mentioned this I made it clear to him that it was
never going to happen. But he would still bring it up
every so often as we got more close and even got
engaged. About a month ago some girl at work gave me a
hug which I felt completely uncomfortable with but did
not tell him about because I thought nothing of it.
But then I keept asking myself what would have
happened if she actully did try to kiss me. I made up
my mind then that if my boyfriend so wanted to make
his fantasy come true I would do it for him. As much
as the thought od it was sickenig. And we talked about
the whole issue again but did not tell him my
decision. Then after a few days a female friend of his
cem to stay with us for a night and we ended up
kissing while he was work. I told him the following
day thinking that he would be thrilled but far from
it. He was angry and said that I had cheated on. The
worst thing was that I could not remember exactly what
happened and just told him it was an innocent kiss.
But the days that followed were horrible. He emailed
his friend and she told him that we had a proper snog.
This led to violence and calling of names and even
breaking our engagement. We talked about it and he
forgave but it always comes up calling me a liar,
checking on my phone I cannot look at a girl with out
him questioning. I got invited for a girls night out
and he said I hope you wont end up getting of with any
of them. I am so annoyed with him. I am not bisexual
or lesbian and has never had any inclination towards
beeing romantically involved with a woman. Now I am
feed up and I think this has to stop. I was devastated
when I learnt of what I had done. But have forgiven my
self. Do you think he should as well? Do you think I
cheated on him? I feel like walking out what should I
do?
Thanks
N
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): Agreed - he's not worth it... to tell you he wants a FMF, and you kiss a girl and he gets upset...
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (26 July 2009):
tell him to pack his stuff and get out... you don't need this... he was using you... this is a control and trust issue and he's failed the test...
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A reader, Kristen, writes (26 January 2005): OMG! he got mad at you? after he told her he wanted to have a threesome with this woman as well? what a pig! You were simply trying something that he wanted you to try. Or maybe what they underlying factor was that he wanted to me with two women so you "Might as well be one of them" he was wanted both of you to be all over him as long as you two women didn't get too personal. What a pig. You should tell him that!
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