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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for close to three years and have been through a lot together. He has always been there for me. We are different in many ways but in the important stuff we are so good together and very much alike. We each have two teenagers and the four kids get along great. I have recently been through some stressful stuff, selling my house, finalizing my divorce but everything is over now. He came over the other morning and said that he needs time for himself and that maybe in a few months we can get back together again. Should I hold out hope or was he just being kind and ending it with me? Should I leave him alone or contact him and try to convince him that things will be ok and that I love and adore him? Guys, please help me with this one.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 September 2009):
This might be the dreaded mid life crisis. Men go through this at about his age. To try and keep him from doing as he wishes would be next to impossible, so I'm afaid you'll have to let him go. If he's splitting from you, then this is a shabby way of doing it. If he goes, don't sit around waiting for him. Go out and meet your friends and have some fun. He said a few months, so give him that to see if he manages to work himself out. If he doesn't, move on and find another guy who is sure of himself and can offer you a committed relationship. All the best.
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