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*acy31
writes:Is there still hope that my ex and I will get back together even though its been almost 3 weeks? He has broken up with me so many times like every month for the past year or more! We have been together for 2 years! The first week of the break up I didn't talk to him then I seen him and made the mistake of begging and pleading for him to take me back! He said no so the last 2 weeks I have'nt had any contact, well he has messaged me a few times but i just ignored .. He said hello..fine don't talk to me.. I knew we couldn't be friends.. See i told you you would hook up with someone after we broke up(as if i would never do that) then just yesterday he msg me ..lol i thought you were more mature than that but i guess i was wrong(because i deleted him off Facebook).. Oh and maybe a week a go I heard subs so I looked out my window and there he was driving by looking at the house I think he seen me! He has no reason to pass my house! So i don't understand do you think he still wants me? I think he just likes the power on me crawling back like I usually do but I wont ever do it again I want him to come back to me! Will he??
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2011): I think the answer depends. if you behave the way he want (and sacrifice your self dignity in the process) then he may come back. but if you become an emotionally stronger, healthier and more balanced person then probably no he won't come back
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Lacy, I think the point is that NO ONE can tell you IF he will come back OTHER than him.
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reader, lacy31 +, writes (14 June 2011):
lacy31 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDoes anything think he will come back .. My only question thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): I think the only reason he wants you back is because it's a control/power/ego thing. he doesn't actually love you or care for you judging from the way he's been treating you. but it boosts his ego to have a woman (whether it's you or anyone else) crawl back to him, and it threatens his ego when you don't. that's all.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (14 June 2011):
Well, since I do not have a crystal ball....
DO you want him to come back because you REALLY miss him and love him? Why do you WANT this person to come back?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 June 2011):
 The magic 8-ball says.. maybe.
But really why do you want him back? So you guys can break up some more?
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reader, lacy31 +, writes (13 June 2011):
lacy31 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks for the reply:) BUT it doesnt answer my question . Just wanted to know if you think he will come back :p
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (13 June 2011):
Leave him alone and go occupy yourself with your own life.
Sometimes we get used to the unproductive drama of our own lives.
It is called a break up because something is broken.
If you ask yourself ONE question it should be
"What I really miss about him is......"
Best Wishes.
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