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anonymous
writes:I’ve been married for 8 years. In general term, it is an OK relationship. However for the past two years or so, I feel terribly lonely and insecure. I don’t have any solid proofs which show my husband is cheating on me nor could I afford a private investigator. My suspicions are based on my gut feelings, as his wife. Here I also need to mention that my husband likes to tell little lies here and there. Why the longer you stay in a marriage the worse you feel? And please let me make it clear: I have no intention or plan to cheat as long as I am his wife. I just want to feel good about myself again. This loneliness is killing me and makes me miserable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): So you don't have solid proof that he's cheating but you suspect it. Why not sit him down and have an honest talk. Even if he is not honest and you don't believe what he says, at least you can state how you feel and that you are not OK with the way things are right now. then see what his attitude is...sometimes if people are cheating they think their spouses don't know so it's still OK but once they realize their spouses do sorta know they then get guilty or confess or something changes.
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reader, agonykaren123  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 hi therem i read your post and it really sadden me to read how lonely you feel, however at the age of 21 i have felt the same extent of lonliness, i am sure you are a wonderful person..it might not help you like it helped me but i look in the mirror everyday and tell myself its going to be a good day and that if i can manage a smile then i can manage the day, as far as your husband is concerned have you voiced your concerns to him? thats the first thing i would do.
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