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anonymous
writes:I got some texts to my cell phone one night from an anonymous person claiming she had been sleeping with my boyfriend, they are together and he was leaving me for her. She claims to have read texts I sent him and that she saw my pics in his phone. She even knew some personal things about me. My boyfriend swears it's a lie and that it must be someone in my family who doesn't like him. I don't know what to think.
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reader, kkcheers4u +, writes (27 March 2009):
Honestly dear, i think this is a set up between a girl and your boyfriend. Because, why would someone in your family do that? That would just be mean. Sorry but im almost positive thats it, just ask your boyfriend about it and study his face and the way he answers the question. Thats also a great way 2 tell if he is lying 2 u
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reader, Midge  +, writes (27 March 2009):
 Sorry to say that there normally isnt smoke without fire! The chances are he is telling you lies and that he is probably cheating, but you need to be sure in yourself first that this is the case.
You need to sit down and take a long hard look at your relationship and see if there is any of the usual signs. Make a few phonecalls, do some investigations yourself, but dont let on that you're doing them. Perhaps even call the number back from another number, see who answers it and ask them to meet you. Think about it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): Male, age 24...
I can tell you with 90% certainty it is not someone in your family. If your family members really loved you then they would respect your choice for a boyfriend and eventual husband. They would not stoop so low as to use such a childish tactic.
My guess... He is lieing and actually cheating on you. This girsl who sent you this message, wants you out of the picture. As far as him telling her he will leave you... debatable. I think he has no intentions of leaving you. Assuming you guys have a physical relationship, if he is cheating, why would he leave you when he can be getting "it" from 2 places?
But of course, there is another scenario that this person who sent you this has an extreme dislike for you and is trying to mess with you... But then again, we are grown ups and who would waste their time unless this person has the maturity level of a high school student... Do you any one like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): If it doesnt seem right to you then it probably isnt. sorry to say. if she knew personal info then it sounds like she was pretty close to him. why would your family do that to you? whether they dont like him or not, i doubt they'd hurt you like this because of it. i would definitely be doing some investigating if i were you...
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