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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:This guy kept claiming for 6 yrs that he loved me and what not. And I never paid any attention to him. So last yr he gets in a relationship or almost did with a girl 4 yrs older than him. And then she moved on. [it was bound to happen -age-]So now when we got together we were all good. Till he starts working. And meets a guy with whom my bf shared everything about his life. So this guy tried to and has successfully made him breakup with me. I thought he was doing it for good till I realised that he was actually making a way for himself. I mean. he's 36 and single, and perhaps just couldn't see us together. But it's my bf's fault too, why did he have to share everything with him and then ALSO listen to whatever crap this guy gives him. I know he played mind games with me because he tried doing that to me too. And the funniest thing is that this 36 yr old guy claims he has hidden powers and he saw our future. And my guy fell for it. TOTALLY! He told my guy that we are not meant since our stars are 'heavy' on each other and on the other hand he told me how my guy was cheating behind my back and went back to his ex gf and she was his first love and what not.. I thought I was the first love here. It's not tht it matters, but if someone has been crying this out for SIX yr, there has to be something to it. So next when I try informing my guy about what this friend of his is trying to do, he refuses to listen to me and tells me that all he wants right now is to focus on his career. And he isn't in a relationship and talks confusing too. And then gives me a call again and tells me that he Has been lying to be all this time and he didn't change one jot for me and I wasn't his first love.. !! Next day he adds me back in his msn and then deletes me without talking. So what the heck is going on... I mean he was there a few days ago crying and what not that he loves me for real and I felt that he did. And suddenly the messed up attitude. I was depressed because I couldn't see anything clearly.. I wonder how other people see this as... I really feel bad for my guy or my ex guy. _
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009):
Sounds like a 'set up' to me but between both of them...don't worry about the future girl , you enjoy the present moment and find a man who does not make pathetic tales up ,so he can be free and has not the balls to give you a REAL REASON, its a cop out. sorry just how i see it.
I wish you well and i can see the future better than those two clowns, you would be wasted on him. Tears probably just GUILT.
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