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writes: There's this guy that really likes me and i also like him but i cant bring myself to saying ill go out with him or anything because theres someone iv liked for over a year who i dont think likes me but i still hold onto hope that one day he will... what should i do im so confused will i get over this crush iv had for so long hows the best way to get over it??
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): For goodness sake, invite the one you have a crush on to go out to lunch or dinner with you and see what he says! If he jumps out the chance and is pleased you asked him, that is of course very good.
But if he's non-committal or sort of "ho-hum" about it, you know, vague, that should let you know he doesn't share your interest and hopefully bring a swift end to your crush.
Then go out with the other one!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): Well, you can't wait for ever on the one you think you like who won't ask you out, you can still remain his friend, but I would definately go out with the other guy and let the first guy see you out or know about it and who knows maybe he will realize you aren't waiting around on him after all and he will step up and ask you out....in the meantime, who knows, you may really like guy #2 after all if you just give him a chance. Isn't dating fun?
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reader, InLove001 +, writes (17 December 2006):
 You can't get over true love but if he's showing no interest there's no point in hanging around. You should bring yourself around and say yes to the one that loves you but only if you think you love him back.
Good Luck! x x
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reader, kenny  +, writes (17 December 2006):
 hi there, I would say the only way you are going to get over this crush you have had for so long is to come straight out and tell this guy your feelings for him. If feels the same as you then thats great, happy days. And if he dosen't feel the same then at least you can move on and get on with your life, and maybe give the guy who really likes you a chance.
Hope answers your question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): hey well honestly you dont have much chance with this guy, he's basicly like a celebrity! you have a crush on him but its not going to work. No matter how much you want it to.
I think you should try it with this friend that does like you who knows you may grow really fond of him! And you will slip slowly out of your crush just give it time.
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