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This guy is so decent and respected my boundaries. Is he interested?

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Question - (25 September 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2011)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

If a guy in a club/bar talks to you for a while, genuinely taking an interest in you. But yet, he doesn't try anything with you (proper flirting, holding your hand, putting his arm around you, touching your shoulder or leg) that kind of thing. It's just them talking but yet they ask for your number and if they can see you again.

Does this mean they liked you? Because it's very rare and confusing to know why a guy who you met in a club, would treat you with so much respect and keep the boundaries! Is he expecting anything do you think? Would he be trying to make you think he is decent, so that he can make his move next time he sees you?

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (25 September 2011):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntEVERY guy is angling for a way to get you (a woman) in bed.... The guy that you describe has a very good "schtick" going... as he has got you wondering, and you can't get your arms around why he would be nice to you....

Good luck....

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (25 September 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntEverybody is different and not all men are out to look for one night stands. It sounds to me like he was genuine enough and that he may actually be a decent guy. I know in clubs this can be rare but it does happen. So if you liked him well then meet up with him again and if not well then tell him thanks but no thanks. You are thinking way to much in to it. Just go with the flow and see what happens.

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