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This guy at work is giving me looks! What should I do?

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Question - (23 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2007)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

This is abit long im not sure if there is anything in this but here goes-there's this guy who i sometimes see at work,he is almost 10 years older than me,anyway we have never really spoken to each other -once as he was leaving and i was returning back he said hi how are you. another time he was speaking to a girl at work and i noticed that he looked over to where i was sitting, he has also watch me walk out of the room, i have no idea if this means anything as we dont speak to each other but we look at each other. any help would be great thanks

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (23 August 2007):

smeedle agony auntI don`t think there is anything to read into what he does, he would have approached you by now if he was interested.

But if you interested in him, you could try smiling at him and going out of your way to bump into him.

If you are interested you dont have to wait for him to make the first move. go for it!!

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A female reader, skye United Kingdom +, writes (23 August 2007):

skye agony auntI agree with Sweet-thing. Unless his looks are overtly sexual or letcherous I dont think you have anything to worry about.

If they are, then you could speak with your immediate manager and make any untoward behaviour known.

However, going from your post I dont think this is the case. It sounds like he is a naturally observant person who is simply interested in his surroundings and has, perhaps on occassion, tried to be polite towards you.

Just relax and be polite next time. He is simply a work mate who is passing the time of day with you.

Best wishes,

Skye

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (23 August 2007):

Sweet-thing agony auntI wouldn't read too much into his behavior. It doesn't sound like there's anything there.

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