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male
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36-40,
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writes:As the title explains, there's a girl at my uni that I like. In the past month or so, we've hooked up a lot - including staying with each other twice (although nothing's happened) other than passionate kissing. Anyway, I've asked her out a few times - the first time, she was working and we've hooked up a few times in between then. We were going to see each other last week but I had to cancel as I was busy. After cancelling last week, I invited her to a gig which was last night. She told me "provisionally yes" but it would depend on how she felt after she got back from a weekend away (in Amsterdam). When she was in Amsterdam she was texting me on Saturday night. Nothing in particular, just talking to each other in a playful way.She got back on Sunday night and I sent her a text yesterday just to say welcome home. I didn't mention going to the gig, I figured I'd ease into it. Anyway, she ignored my text yesterday. She knew I'd probably remind her about the gig so my feeling is that she ignored me so she wouldn't have to reject me. And no, she wasn't busy yesterday. She was updating Facebook all day. I went to the gig with someone else but I am really confused by this girl. One minute she seems to be interested and the next she's completely the opposite and I feel a bit of an idiot for chasing after her. I called her out and said that there was no need to ignore me and that I'd have prefered her honesty and said "take care" to which she replied today that she didn't mean to and that it was unintentional.I like her and would like to get to know her better, but I have no idea how she can blow hot and cold as and when it suits her. I think the best thing for me to do is to just move on and ignore her from now on but can somebody please try and explain what the hell is going on with her? I can't work her out! It'd be nice to have some idea...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): so talk to her...
just ask her, tell her how you feel...get on with it and stop trying to guess everything around the edges...
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