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Thinking about dating my step sister.

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Question - (12 June 2010) 8 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

OK I'm 15 and my stepsister is 14. We are really close. We've known each other for like three years. She is the type of girl i like to date. I think I am starting to develop feelings for her. I don't mean have sex with her because I don't like to have sex all the time for no reason, but just date to see if I do like her. How do I find out/ ask if she wants to too. It would be easy except I don't want to ruin my relationship with her. I totally respect her and well yeah…

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010):

You and your step-sister may be close but what if you have to live together and you suddenly grow further away and your parents would become suspicious come time

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010):

Hey I wrote the question. For your info we don't live together she lives with her mom but we do visit each other. Like I said I made my mind not to do it and let it go. THANX EVRYBODY.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (13 June 2010):

person12345 agony auntDon't do it. You're very young and will probably break up at some point. Then you have to live with her AND explain to your parents what's going on. It's just a bad situation. Even if you aren't blood related, you might as well be. I'd say just let it go.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010):

Hey everybody its me who wrote this question. Thank I've made up my mind, I'm not going to do it but the thing that made me write this comment is that it makes me mad that half of the people really didn't read the question. They think just by the title I want have sex with my step sister. Well I don't, I'm not like those guy on those show about teenagers who are total jerks. I like to have relationships, and to prove it I went out with a girl for over a year and the most we did was kiss and hold hands

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A female reader, kittykitty United States +, writes (13 June 2010):

don't mess anything up. at the age you're at, nothing ever ever lasts forever. and if it does... that's like one in a million.. but if you decide to anyways, then think about when you break up. how awkward will it be at christmas time when you're opening presents and it's like O_o or when you gotta go to dinner with her. always. think. ahead...... especially in relationships.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010):

Your both too young to be having sex. Especially her so leave your step sister alone.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010):

She is your sister the word 'step' doesn't mean thAt she isn't. She is as much your sister as a blood related sister, just because you can't get any girls stop fantasising about your sister, I mean if she knew I am sure that she would be disgusted.

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2010):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntAlthough you are not blood related, you are realted by marriage and any sexual or dating relationship you may have could be very very complicated. If the relationship ends or go wrong this is a girl you must see on many occasions, and also many people including your parents my disapprove of this idea. i really dont think this is a good idea my friend, all the bad outweighs the good!!

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