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*onderingeye1
writes:I got this friend were both 15. We've been friends since 8th grade. We see movies alot and talk on the phone frequently. i might be in love. Only doubt it is because of my age. To know for sure I want to ask her out but feel so unsure of how she feels about me. We make movie Friendly date alot but most of the time it is with my other friend. I've changed that, now its been more me and her. I made this thing for her that showing feelings. Proabably to understand you'll need to see it. I didn't metion it the night before when we talked. and she brouht it wirh her when we went to the movies together. What was my mistake, that I lied cause I chikened out and i said it was my friends and he wanted it back. AFter I got home I started to think maybe that was my chance to make a move. Felt stupid cause i thought she was hoping for it. still unsureWe go to different schools which makes it more difficult for me to know how she feels about me. Really need help. Only thing I am afraid I'm making our friendship awkward. I've asked girls out just not really been on a date. and not a Friend! Reply to this Question
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reader, Wonderingeye1 +, writes (20 June 2007):
Wonderingeye1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI relaly don't want to have sex with her. I like her alot! I don't even get sexual thoughts of her cause I don't care about physical features as much. It's hard to explain how I feel about her. I would do anything for her! I have. I know if I ever hurt er or make er cry I wouldn't forive myself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): Well you are very young, and you may very well love this girl as friendship is the foundation of any boy/girl relationship that is worth anything! Really the best thing to do is to keep being her friend, and you are too young to be getting too heavy into a relationship, you should not try to close yourself off from meeting other girls for potential friends, you have plenty of time to be dating and become exclusively involved with a girl.
If you have feelings for her, you can metion that to her, you can try to kiss her and see her reaction, please don't be in a rush for more physical intimacy than you are ready for and realize the consequences are very severe for kids your age, you really need to wait until you are both physically, emotionally and financially mature to have sex! That said, I don't want to discount your feelings of love because you are so young, I think they are very valid, but realize that this relationship will most definately not be your last and don't get too serious about it....just try to have some fun and enjoy the time you spend with her, that is key!
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