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Things were going great between us and then he randomly stopped talking to me?

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Question - (2 September 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I was seeing this guy, I'm 18, he's 20.

We both got on well and we used to see each other whenever we could.. He was a busy guy but not extremely busy.

He made it clear that he liked me by sending me texts, meeting up with me, telling me he liked me and kissing me.

On Sunday we had planned to meet up at around 7pm for dinner, he spoke to me on blackberry messenger at 6ish asking me where we should meet because he was out with his friends so he was going to make his way to me.

I replied asking him where he was cause then it would have been easier for me to meet him half way seeing as I was already dressed.

He replied telling me where he was so I asked him what time he would be back home and I didn't get a reply..

I then called 30mins later and no response...

I then messaged him once more and I didn't get a reply.

Since that day he hasn't replied to any of my messages, but he has read them all because the good thing about talking via blackberry is that you can see when someone has read the message you have sent to them as a small "R" pops up on the left. So anything I write, whether it be a "hello" I still get ignored. I know he's not worth my time and trust me I'm not going to go back to him but I was just wondering why a guy would do this? I know that I haven't done anything wrong because we were fine and we even agreed to meet up...

I would go straight to the source and ask him but I've tried and he just ignores me...

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (2 September 2011):

Yos agony auntThere's hundreds of possible reasons a guy might do this, but the most likely is that he met someone else and is too much of a coward to tell you.

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A male reader, JayCupid United Kingdom +, writes (2 September 2011):

Is there any chance his phone has been stolen? Because as a man i would never do that to a girl, if he is just ignoring you on purpose then he is not worth your time and you should find someone who respects you :)

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