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Things went bad a long time ago, so why do I still keep talking to him?

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Question - (3 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *lowerpower810 writes:

My boyfriend and I broke up about four months ago. We were together two and half years, a good year and a half was spent together while he was incarcerated. I waited for him but, after a year I fell out of love with him and cheated on him. But, I still stayed with him. He came home, we tried things out and I just couldn't really stand who he was. eventually I broke up with him and told him the truth about everything. We talked on and off for two months then, I changed my number and stoped talking to him for a month. He some how got my new phone number and that's where the problems started. I started talking to him again, I thought I was being smart about it but, apparently not. In a way I still have feelings for him, and miss him but, things went bad a long time ago and they will never be the same. I know that I should move forward, and I know everything that I should do but, Im hesitant for some reason. Why am I feeling this way? What should I do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011):

It's always difficult to break up with someone, even when we know they are not right for us. Ask him to stop contacting you, and if necessary change your number again. Then you can move on.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (3 January 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntYou obviously somewere deep down dont want it to be over or else you wouldnt be hanging on to him. There is not much anyone on here can tell you as you already no what you should do. Just follow whatever you feel is best. Goodluck.

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