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Things moved a bit more quickly than I would have liked...

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Question - (12 October 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

I am 23 and have never really had a proper relationship although have 'seen' a few people over the last couple of years.

I met this guy in a pub, he came over to me and then asked for my number. We met up and had a great night and I stayed over. I felt a bit crap after this but he still replied to text messages and we met up again a week later and again I stayed over. Whenever I text him he always replies straight away.

He has gone off to work for the RAF for the next few weeks and has said he definitely wants to keep in contact. I think I have fallen for him but don't want to come across as easy although I fear I may already have done so. I regret things happening so fast but it seemed right at the time. Should I still make the effort or wait for him?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2005):

Hi there, Do not feel wrong about what has happened. It has happened, and as they say- if it is meant to be it'l be. If it doesnt happen, than make sure you don't blame yourself. Put it down to experience and look at how it made you feel and then you can react differntly next time if you want to. I am 23, and I know we're supposed to be adults, but sometimes I feel like stuff happens which is a bit too fast or grown up for me! I don't know if you feel like this, but trust that you made the right decision at the time. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2005):

Relationships all go at different speeds for each and everyone of them..do what you feel is right for you.

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