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writes:Recently I got this guy that I really liked number, so then I called it. We ended up sending each other pictures and having phone sex. Now this was a HUGE shock for me because Ive liked this guy for 3 going on 4 years. Also he was more in the popular crowd and a couple years older then me. Now my best friends brother was best friends with him, so we made a plan to both go to there house the following weekend and we would "do stuff". Sadly, he didn't make it so I just hanged out with my friend, and some time during that night I told her brother what had happened. So then her brother told his friends who got mad and yelled at the guy I liked for doing that with a younger girl. So then The guy I liked hated me, and I apologized and he forgave me. So then I told my friend that he forgave me but she still said that he hated me from what her brother had heard. So I went on a couple weeks depressed because here's this kid that I liked for 3 years, and I actually got to talk to him and had a chance of me and him doing stuff together...But then I made everything bad by telling the wrong person. So then I happened to run into him when I was with a group of friends. I was extremely nervous and uncomfortable so I sorta hid behind them. Then later that night I got a text from him asking why I didn't say hi, my reply was I thought you hated me....So by the end of our conversation I found out that he didn't hate me and I was in love with him. So I talked to one of his friends about it and it helped me realize a lot more things about the whole situation that sorta made me fall for him even more. So now I have no clue what to do. I haven't seen him in forever, so I'm waiting and waiting until we both happen to be at our friends house at the same time and I'm really impatient. I really want to text him to but I don't want to annoy him because he has a girlfriend and is older than me. Also, his friends are against him having anything to do with me. And mainly I just want to be his best friend! I think he's the sweetest, funniest most amazing guy on this whole planet! I really just need to know what to do about making us become closer as friends, and how to talk to him with out sounding annoying...Because I mean he's nice enough to still talk to me despite the fact that I made all his friends mad at him and really embarrassed him...I don't want to push the fact that his still willing to to talk, you know? So anyways please I really need to know what to do! I love this boy and that's a fact, and all I truly want from him is a friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry I didn't explain things well enough. When we did have phone sex he was only talking to the girl and they weren't in a relationship...And with the picture thing he kept asking me to send topless pictures and stuff like that, but I kept refusing to because I knew that would be a stupid thing to do. I ended up only sending him a semi-topless photo (I had a bra on) And he sent me some more graphic things I didn't even ask for. Then about meeting up, we were planning on just me giving him a blow job. But see I really really want to be friends with him and I don't think it's a bad idea, I just don't know how to make it happen. When I was talking to his friend about it he said how the guy I liked learned a lesson from it, and won't do anything like that again. So once I actually talked to him again, he seemed really cool about the whole thing and I don't think he really wants to follow through with the whole plan we made.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Sorry, just to doublecheck this. This guy has a girlfriend and is having phone sex with you? You sent pictures to each other--what kind of pictures? Then you and he made plans to meet up and "do stuff"--what kind of stuff? And you just want to be friends, even though his friends think it's a bad idea. This is sounding pretty convoluted right now. Could you clarify those points for me?
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