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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend over 3 months and I have a great time when we re together!we haven't had sex yet,cuz I'm not ready and he's willing to wait!but when we make out,its sooo passionate and gets soo hot!in the heat of tthe moment he slipped his hand under my bra and I asked him to stop which he did!but it did disaPpoint him that I asked him to stop..I just want us to make out,is it ok for me to want only that!is it unfair to my boyfriend,I mean he's ready to wait for sex but I don't even let him touch my breasts!how do I work this?will it frustrate him eventually?He sent me this long text saying he would never do anything I don't like,and he promised..and he's like even if I don't promise I would never do something u don't want to do!and sometimes it gets so hot between us he gets carried away but it will definitely never lead to sex!How do I handle this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2013): I think he sounds like a good guy from what you have said. If you both are kissing very passionately and not having sex then you can't blame him that he gets carried away sometimes and wants to touch you breasts. The fact that he has said he would never push you and stopped when you asked, says a lot bout him. Most men that I know would try and push it.
Do you let him maybe touch butt or back and sides?? I think you should askhim in person . Tell him that you are worried about you thinking your being unfair by limiting him on whatever can and can't do with you.
Hope that helped a little.
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