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writes: I met this guy a couple months ago and he's 24. I'm only 18 but I really like him. He wants to hang out again. I've only met him once..I'm scared..and don't know what to do. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Sugaro +, writes (21 December 2006):
age shouldnt be a problem, its the feeling that matter. If you really love him go for it and stick with it think about it when you 30 he will only be 36.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2006): Age is just a number. im 18 and my husband is 26. we couldnt be more happier. Also if your worried about his age, you cant really like him, or it wouldnt be an issue, anyway his real age will be his sho size.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (22 November 2006):
The age isn't a problem but how you feel about the age gap maybe a problem. You have to work out if you are worried about the 6 years between you or just worried about dating this guy for another reason (...so the age becomes a convenient excuse). I personally don't think 6 years is a big deal and you are both adults. You are not accepting a marriage proposal...if you like him then I don't think a few dates will be a bad thing while you get to know each other. It doesn't mean you should be pressurised into a sexual relationship early though; take your time to get to know him.
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reader, Lemonpixie +, writes (22 November 2006):
Age is but a number deary... but as stated before on this site its usually a 'stage gap' If you 2 are in the same stage in life, (which most likely you are when your 18 and 24) then there shouldn't be a problem. What makes you scared to meet this guy? Or is it just intimidating to hang out with an older guy? If you two click and seem to like each other i dont see why there is a problem you're both adults.
Good luck
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