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anonymous
writes:There's a new girl I'm interested in. I think she's interested in me as well, and I'd really like us to start seeing eachother, even though we haven't been talking for very long... I'm just not sure how to go about it. She isn't very good at replying to text messages. I feel like I have to wait for hours on end just to find out how she's doing! I have no idea what she's doing but she seems to be awfully busy.Anybody know this feeling? What can I do? I don't want to come across as clingy by texting HER all the time and not getting anything back.
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (24 September 2007):
 shes playing hard to get but she doing it in a way that she may end up losing your interset im i right. i used to be the girl that texted all the time in the end it wasn't working out so i would let him text me than i would wait a while than text back. just talk to her to her face i hate having conversation with a guy through text its annoying. anyway i think she likes you she is playing hard to get you just have to make the move by telling her you like her.
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reader, lost666 +, writes (24 September 2007):
 Yeah i agree definitely playing hard to get because thats probably what websites/magazines etc., tell her to do because girls dont wanna come across as desperate/needy/clingly especially in the first stages of a relationship. have u ever seen "how to lose a guy in 10 days"? most girls really dont wanna be THAT kind of girl. i used to do this too but i got so excited when they guys used to text me, i bet she loves hearing from you, also some people arent so good at texting and too many relationships rely on texting far too much.dont worry, keep texting her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): I've been that girl. She's just playing hard to get.. she doesn't want you to think she sitting by the phone waiting for you to text/call. I used to wait up to 3days before texting the guy i liked back at one point. Seems so silly now. Eventually she'll get bored n start to text back quicker xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): How about the good old-fashioned method of talking to her face to face? You'll get instant responses and so will she, and there's nothing at all technical about it.Phil
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