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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:How can someone supposedly want you or love you and not want to spend time with you alone??I cant get my head round it. People we hang out with have often said 'he seems to like you but he seems like he's just too shy to tell you or even show it.' So he acts the total opposite. He's not mean to me or anything its just like if there a few of us go out he talks to them rather than me, even if there's a gap next to me he won't sit with me he sits on the other side with them.What's getting me though is..why won't he stay with me alone? For example we arranged to go out and my mates couldn't come so then he backed out. Also he won't meet me first anymore he always wants to meet us up there rather than walking up with me since i pass his house. (which we used to do)Thing is we have been out alone before and neither of us knew what to say. Tbh he was quite shy. However since then we went out as a group and he knew the others would leave early and so he asked me to stay out with him and i had the best night of my life. We kept messing round and playfighting which lead to a bit of cuddling. He told my mate as well he really enjoyed it. He's often said to her he likes me(as a friend we assume) But he just wont meet me alone. Yet last time we stayed out for a bit just talking, well we weren't talking much because neither of us said much. I just don't understand it. He always goes straight to the others and I don't know what i can do anymore. He just wont meet me alone. Thing is because he does it its like he doesn't wanna see me alone which doesn't even show we're proper mates. I feel there's such a strong feeling between us and as I've said people think he does after everything that's happened but hes just too shy.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (25 April 2010):
There comes a point where you have to give up.
You can't talk him through it and do ALL the work in a relationship before it even starts.
Move on. There are plenty of guys in the world who will like you enough to get off their arse and take a chance on asking you out.
Good Luck!! xx
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