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anonymous
writes:I split up with my boyfriend(who is over 12 yrs older than me) almost a yr ago now, but have remained friends with his family. There is no hard feelings between us, in fact we speak when we see each other.I know i definitely don't want him back, and have started going clubbing with my friends again, something i stopped doing while i was with him. The thing is.. the last couple of times I've been out, I've bumped into his son (who is only 5yrs younger than me)He walked me home,and seemed quite flirty, but i thought it must be the drink. A few weeks later, he walked me home again, this time, we kissed! It was obvious we both are deeply attracted to each other !! I have tried to resist this, but am finding it harder to do ! We can't turn it into a full on relationship for obvious reasons, but is it so wrong for us to have a bit of fun, as long as we remain discreet?
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reader, x_goddess_x +, writes (25 August 2007):
 well if you love i think you should get with him and dont care about wat other ppl say but if your feelings isnt love then leave it you dont need the stress
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): You don't say you love him(?) You want to risk a family's stability for "a bit of fun?"
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reader, Aunt Audrey +, writes (24 August 2007):
 Hi there,
I think you need to keep the lid on this can of worms, you know the problems getting involved with your ex's son will cause you or you would not feel the need to be discreet about it....
I'm sure you're flattered but I would resist temptation, I don't think the fall out once it gets back to your ex, (and it will eventually believe me), is going to be worth having a fling with his son.
I'm sure you can find someone to have fun with that will not bring as much grief as getting it on with your ex boyfriend's son will!
Good luck, get involved with this one and your gonna need it!
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