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anonymous
writes:Should I move on?Me and my fiance have been having problems because he doesnt like for me to tell him who he can hang around with,but theirs some girls and a guy that live 2 houses down from where his mother and my ex fiance lives, well the people that live there do drugs thats the reason why i dont like them. Ok well anyways his mom had told me that at 9:00 she had caught him in bed with one of the neighbor girls which she had her clothes on and was sleeping next to him so later on that day i confronted him in front of his mom to see if it was true or not his mom said it was true and my ex fiance said it wasnt true, but why would his mom lie to me if we get along so well and we have never had problems. And now my ex wont leave me alone he keeps telling me its not true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): Trust is so important in a relationship.Its true what they say if you dont have trust then theres no chance of it working.
i heard a lot of rumours about my ex cheating i still dont know the truth about them issues but i lost complete respect and trust in him.
You got to think to yourself do you really want to marry a man whom you dont trust and have problems with.
I wouldnt believe his word over his moms if she saw it its a fact he did, even if he swears to you he didnt he just doesnt want to lose you but he should have thought of the outcome before doing what he did.
You can see who you want when you want if that means your ex fiance or your friends its your life dont let him control you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): I think you should just move on. If he would have taken you seriously he would have tried not to hang out with those people but he didn't care what you had to say with regards to them. You did the hardest part already which is breaking it off, now just hang in there and pull through with it. Why would his mother tell you a lie? I would go with what his mother told you. He will deny it because he wants to get back with you but it's too late! Stay strong and good luck!
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