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writes:I dated a girl a couple of years ago for about a year, she went her way and I went mine. She now lives in a different city. However, recently we have been talking a lot on msn messenger and it feels like we are on the verge of maybe getting back together. The only reason we broke up before was she had to go back to her home town and I had commitments I had to stick to too. Even with each of us having a couple of flings since, we both agree that we never stopped loving each other.Here's the problem... the whole time we were together, i used viagra and she knows nothing about it. Its not that there is anything physically wrong, I always wake up with things working (i was told that was a way to know) just since I was about 22 (28 now) I have used it to cure sexual anxiety. Without it i worry too much.Is this something she needs to know about? How would you feel if your boyfriend was doing this?It is something that is really worrying me and i don't want it to stop me getting back with her as we are both very much in love.
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reader, A Anms +, writes (28 October 2009):
A Anms is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts not that i don't trust her or couldn't share absolutely anything with her... I prob could, its just the worry that if I did it would all go horribly wrong... When I first started getting the anxiety I remember the reactions from a couple of girls and it was nothing short of something out of a horror movie, I had really offended them and there was nothing I could do... really is the worst feeling ever. There is the option of trying to cure this anxiety first, but then it could be too late or worse it could never get cured.
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reader, A Anms +, writes (28 October 2009):
A Anms is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to the answers so far... it would be the dream that all would be understanding etc, but the fear of other people finding out etc is there. Thats what I mean... is this something that she needs to know about before I begin another relaionship with her? Does she need to know? It seems like that would be fair, but at the same time I am not comfortable enough to tell her which makes me doubt whether I should enter back into a relationship with her. But that means I have a life of one night stands ahead of me
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