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The waiting game killed our potential friendship

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Question - (13 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2009)
A female Spain age 30-35, anonymous writes:

At the beginning of this year i was going through a messy break-up and suffered depression as i had a miscarriage towards the end of that relationship and because my bf was in the army he was always away and couldn't be there for me when i needed him.

Anyway, a few weeks later, somebody was asking me out repeatedly and in the end after 6 weeks of him asking i decided to start a relationship with him, after all he waited 6 weeks for me! Everything started going well, he was really affectionate towards me and everything but after a while things seemed to change. In public he wouldn't show me any affection, he saved it all til we were on our own. Was he embarassed by me?!

He broke up with me last week and said he wanted to be friends and i was like let me think about it. I went back to him 2 days later and said yes sure id like to remain friends and he replied no. You are childish and i want nothing to do with you at all. I am pregnant with his child but he thinks im making this up. Why is he beahving like this?

I mean waiting 6 weeks for me, then all of a sudden telling me i'm as good as dead to him!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009):

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He believes that i would be an unfit mum. He says im immature (i think he needs to look in a mirror personally) and he says that im psycho although he hasn't got any evidence to back it up.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009):

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thnks for this by the way...

Yer god knows what is going through his head. He has said to me that if i have the baby, he is going to take me to court for full custody rights so its getting messy. He's only 17 and very immature for his age, he's not old enough or responsible enough. i mean at 20 im not really either.

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