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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. He has been married once before, but it was only a 6 yr relationship and it ended in 1996. He has never really told me that he loves me, except one night he told me "I think I am falling in love with you". That was Xmas day of this last year. He has never said I love you. He also used to always talk about marriage and ask me what kind of rings I like, but he hasn't done that for about 4 months. Right now we are struggling to try and buy a house. Is it just because we have so much to think about and a lot going on, that he hasn't spoke about marriage? Why cant he tell me he loves me because by the other things he says, he seems like he really does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2005): Maybe you and your boyfriend should have waited to get married. I mean if he is just now saying "I love you" then there might be something wrong with him. Even if he was the one that asked "What kind of ring do you like?" maybe he just wanted to get married just to get married. Try talking to him and find out what's he thinking and why is he now just saying the words "I love you".
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