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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for a few years but have recently met someone new. I live with my boyfriend but i feel the spark has gone slighty and look at him as more of a best friend now, he has no idea i feel like this and was going to propose recently until we agreed we were both not ready.The other guy i met is kind but im not completely sure if he likes me the same way as i like him.All my family love my boyfriend and there would be qs for years if we broke up, i need him as a best friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): This is just a natural process of a relationship, i've been the same... im now married and very happy!
As the previous poster said, the grass really is always greener and you may well regret loosing him in the future.
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reader, Christof +, writes (26 November 2005):
If he feel's like your best friend, you should be able to tell him how your feeling...that you have lost the spark and that you want to try and get the excitement back. The grass is always greener on the other side, new guys or girls you meet always seem more interesting and exciting because you don't know anything about them yet. Think hard about what you would be giving up, but also why you are still with your boyfriend...is it for your sake or your family's? He is your partner..not theirs.
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