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anonymous
writes: I have a boyfriend that kind of came on fast. I have a sexual attraction for this boy and our sexual energy is all there, but I have this feeling that we will not have a loving relationship, but if I ask him like can we go out to lunch or can I have some money he brings up an excuse. Should I leave him or should I stay and see what will happen?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2006): Why are you asking him for money? It's not a good idea to do that. You want to be independent financially, and for him to know you are. Also, if you're suggesting lunch out, you should be prepared to pay your half - since you were the one inviting him.Sexual attraction is good, but its only PART of a healthy relationship. From what you wrote, I get the impression there's not much else there. If you do decide to stay and see what happens, you'd better be prepared for some heartache and disappointment.Your choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2006): why are you asking your bf for money?
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