A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well I guess you can say this is a part II to my previous post "How do I be with him in a serious, committed relationship without forcing him into it?" There was one thing wrong. This thing barthered me. Something that I don't know how to solve. His sex isn't great. I like to return home reminising on the sex we just had. But with this guy..who I love, I come home regular. Not so much reminising on the sex. I've had other sexual partners, and they were great. Could it be because they have a much bigger size than him. They say that size doesn't matter, but I think it does. I like to feel and experience that sensual feeling. I haven't seem him since March, because I've been having sex with someone else. And the sex is just amazing! But with the one I love its not great. Is it me,him,his size? I don't know what to do. I love him..but not so much the sex. Its not that good sex that keeps me running for more. But yet its not horrible. I haven't told him, and I have decided not to. He's more sexually experienced than I am..so shouldn't he know how to handle a female's body the right way? What should I do..? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Illithid +, writes (28 July 2010):
 Sometimes sex is good, sometimes it isn't. Sometimes a person can improve over time, but if he's experienced and you two have tried many times and it just isn't working, then it's never going to be world-shaking sex. It's up to you what's most important to you and go where you'll be happy. You love him, but it doesn't sound like you'll ever be satisfied with him sexually, and that dissatisfaction turns to resentment and frustration in the end. It doesn't sound like love is enough in this case.
|
