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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been friends with a girl for the past three years and recently we've become close and we got into a close relationship. Its been about six weeks now and we become deeper and suddenly ive felt numb and unhappy, especially after we have a sexual intercourse, and I cannot explain it. This has happened to me before within the last 3 years I get into a relationship and after about 3 to four weeks I get the same symptoms and I wanted to break it up assuming I lost interest in them. She is beautiful and got a nice personality she is literally the girl of my dreams and I cannot see any reason why I should break up with her and I find im more attracted to other girls, I feel really lost and confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (23 September 2007):
 you're scared of moving to the next stage of your relationship as much as you want to so you mentally block the next level out.
talk to your girlfriend and see where you're going becuase the fear of the unknown causes us to act bizarely.
good luck
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2007): It may be that the relationship has reached a new level. The initial attraction/ infactuation phase has ended. This initial phase of love is actually like a drug that one can become addicted to. You actually see the person with rose-colored glasses and everything they do seems great. Once that ends, you may realize that the two of you don't have as much in common in terms of long term compatibility that you might of thought. You should look for a mate based on qualities you would want in a friend instead of inital attractiveness. If you want to continue with this girl you must do things to keep the attraction going by doing fun and interesting things together, suprising her, being unpredictable, etc. This is just a thought.
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