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writes: I work with a very charming and married man who plays around on his wife. I am not proud to say it but I was one of his conquests. I was upset for awhile but have moved on from it now and am in another relationship. It is hard to see him using all the same lines he used on me on other women I work with. Some of these women are good people and I would like to alert them to what he is like but I feel that if I do say something they will say I am jealous but if they get hurt they will be upset that I did not warn them. Should I say something or hold my tongue?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 June 2007):
I agree with Flower, dummy up and let the chips fall where they may. It's not your job to protect the world from this cheater.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (6 June 2007):
The other women in the office obviously realise he is married so if i were you i would keep quiet and let them make their own mistakes, otherwise it could cause alot of bad feeling in the office and because you said something it would all be directed at you, just look after yourself.
Take care.xx.
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