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The man I'm seeing doesn't want commitment and is controling our relationship. How can I get things back on even ground?

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Question - (8 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2008)
A female Czech Republic age 51-59, anonymous writes:

The man i'm dating although he has told me that he doesn't want a serious commitment sometimes he is very sweet and friendly. Because we have talked a lot about us i think that i have lost the control of the situation and he is the one that can actually control everything. Although i don't want to stop seeing him i would like to show him that he should behave to me as he had behaved in the start when we didn't know each other. How can i really change the situation and arrange the things for my side? Will any effort be futile and nothing will really change this situation?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008):

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I really don't like to see someone without there is a commitment between us but i 'm afraid that if i make this clear to him he will leave and i like him a lot. I think that i can't change this at the moment without losing him.

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