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writes: About a year ago I realised my relationship was going nowhere but was happy to accept it for reasons of security. Six months ago I fell in love with my partner's best friend and she with me. We fought our feelings at first, but eventually had to give in to them. As this was happening, I lost my job and we agreed that I should do nothing about ending my relationship until I was financially secure again. We carried on a secret relationship, which involved meeting, but did not include sex. When I found a job, I ended my relationship and am now completely seperated from my ex. In the meantime, my new love was overcome by feelings of extreme guilt and insecurity, insecurity particularly within our wider circle of friends. This has led to us drifting apart and we are now in a situation where we are not seeing each other and she has told me that we cannot see each other again, even though she loves me and knows we are perfect for each other. I am convinced that this girl is my soulmate. What should I do now?
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reader, pops +, writes (30 September 2005):
There was a man who searched for the perfect wife. Years later he found her. But they did not marry, as she was also looking for the perfect husband!
It takes two people to make a relationship and a marriage. If she doesn't think the two of you should be a pair, it does not really matter what you believe, does it? Move on.
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