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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:These feelings im getting is confusing me somedays i feel damn we would be so great together and even her best friend has said why aint we dating i think she may have said he doesnt feel that way about im not sure. Im not a big help either in the situation i am friends with more girls then guys and alot of them talk about how nice i am. It even got to the stage of my other friend who is again a girl starting to treat me like her property i felt responsible for her marriage breaking down because he lived overseas and i was just being way too nice to her. Everyone said she would turn mad if i ever stopped talking to her especially the girl i liked i just said no i got it underwraps i hate girls who just fall for me cos im nice i treat all girls the same. She wasnt pleased with this and said fine thanks. This was before i started having weird feelings. My ex says i may have ended any chance there and then especially since i always tell her to get lost when she calls me cute and says im so great etc. Although there have been times she said wow if i had a bro like you. But ive been told thats my own fault she jus doesnt want to feel akward. Shes now is dating i was kinda glad cos i felt great a block now. It was going ok but then the troubles started with them. Natually she came to me. The stuff he did was nuts but she loves him alot so she forgave him even though she knows he lied. He knows saying he may go away and from all the stuff before i feel hes lying to her just to get her more under. Ive tried to explain i think im not the only one saying the same. But shes gonna get on see how it goes. What should i do am i just having these feelings cos we get on so great or is it something more? Should i also stop going hard at her about her bf and leave her to it? I do care a great deal for her cos shes had it bad before and i fear shell go back to that dark place she was:( thanks
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